yankeedo says:

I’m with you on this one.I came home with a new pa and my gal was not real happy about it.But after a couple hrs she warmed up to the idea and could not wait to see it or FEEL it.A year later I surprised her on her birthday with a frenum ladder.That did not do so well.after a couple days of not talking to me she finally got over it and we got busy.If you have a woman in your life best off to tell her up front.If you already have it tell her how much you care about her and that its for her enjoyment and nobody else’s.Otherwise they seem to think you are somebody they don’t know.Just my advice but I’d say to get the frenum.Its a nearly painless and an easy to care for piercing.I think your woman will like it.They look/feel great! Although I would also like to try a dydoe sometime.(with my sweetie’s knowledge though) Good luck with this friend.