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10 Points For Best Answer! Tounge Piercing Question.?

4 Comments 28 February 2010

1st of all, if you answer my question ill answer yours. Just post a link with your answer!
Ok so i want my tounge pierced, but since im only 15, i need parents permission. My mom wont say no but my dad doesnt like piercings. I do have a nose stud, and an industrial, which he says looks like a dog bone lol. I think he may look at a tounge piercing as trashy, most likely bc he’s seen someine trashy with one or watever! Anyway i would nvr know howto approach him verbally soi wrote him a letter. Theletter has key points like, imgetting older,its my body,i need somefreedom i dont want to shut u outbc u cant let me go, i dontdo drugs/ smoke, mygrades are rly good, i help around the house, ill pay for it. Do u think he will be persuaded or at least think about it? Also is there anything i should add, im giving it tohimtonight so im UBER nervous. I really want it & wat if ge says no? Ive been so excited about it.

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  1. Tomb Raider says:

    Jordan,timing is everything when you are asking your parents for anything,I wouldn’t hit your dad up until he’s had something to eat and has been able to relax,why the letter? If you want this done,sit down with your mom and discuss this with your dad.To me,writing a letter is the chickens way out,I would personally speak with him,I would sit down and say dad,I have something that I would like you to consider,then tell him what you would like to have and how you would be willing to work around the house to pay for it,then see what his reaction is,it sounds like your mom isn’t opposed to it,so now your job is to convince your dad.Just my thoughts.Tomb Raider.

  2. mama & wife says:

    he will prob say no, my dad told me no because it’s for oral sex (he used coarser language to get his point across) i did it anyway, myself, and couldv’e bled to death. then when i was 18 i got it done professionally, and regretted it and couldn’t land a job after 4 different interviews because i wouldnt take out my tongue ring. i took it out, cuz it is kinda trashy and expensive and when guys see it they think your extra good at oral sex

  3. Gabrielle says:

    I just got mine done yesterday but the peircer didn’t ask me to rinse my mouth first nor did he identify the spot with a marker…? Im scared that he might have hit a nerve how do I know? is there signs… or am i just freaking out for nothing?

  4. Mimi says:

    Honestly, it really depends on your parents. All parents are different, and if he still says no then don’t try to go out and find someone who will do it unprofessionally, (even if they say they’re professional). I got my tongue pierced when I was 14 in eighth grade, and I’ve had it up until now (I’m now a sophomore). Besides just having a tongue piercing to look cute, you should definitely look up some of the health risks. I.e, if it touches your teeth a lot you might want to reconsider. It makes your teeth weak from having steel rub against it, and takes off the enamel (which you need ha.) As for the letter you wrote to your dad, you had some pretty good reasoning. But you should give him a little more information on the actual piercing. He’s probably worried, because there ARE health risks (minor or major). Do some research on tongue piercings, (care, healing process, etc) and let him know how much you’ve given thought to it. He might also think that you’re “immature” or too young to have a piercing like that, which is understandable. I can’t imagine a 14 year old getting her tongue pierced, even though I did. If he still says no after all of your effort, just wait it out. Then when the time comes, it will be exciting and new. Hope it works out!


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